Youth Ministry Leadership Quick Tip: Ask and Listen

The following is part of the on the go training that I’ve begun to give our adult leaders in our youth ministry. The principles should be transferrable to other youth ministries with small group programs.

Broken Interwebs

“The Internet is not working.” Five words that strike fear into the core of my existence. I heard these words often during my time in college as a systems administrator. Almost invariably, a client would be calling from a remote office where he couldn’t get to the documents that he had saved to our network.

Unfortunately, the initial diagnosis, “the internet is not working,” was usually inaccurate. For such a large, distributed system as the internet, it works rather consistently. Usually, the problem was more localized. And so, I would begin asking questions.

“Is your computer on? Ok. Is the computer plugged into the router? Ok. Is your router on?” And so the interrogation would go, until I found the one or more breaks in the line between the internet and the person’s computer. Usually it was a modem. Sometimes it was a loose plug. But the only way to figure it out was to ask the right questions and listen attentively.

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Three Thoughts about Theology

In high school, my Latin teacher was one of the most influential people in my life. A graduate student at the local seminary who taught Latin on the side, he worked hard to draw out discussion about God without actually being the one to initiate conversations (surely because of the limitations placed on him by the public school system).

There was a quote that he kept on his chalkboard that said something to the effect, “Man must subordinate himself to something.” I don’t remember if that was the exact quote. But I do remember the force of the assertion: people must worship something.

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Small Group Leadership Quick Tip: Know When to Move On

The following is part of the on the go training that I’ve begun to give our adult leaders in our youth ministry. The principles should be transferrable to other youth ministries with small group programs.

I Heart Mixtapes

Remember tapes? Those little plastic boxes with ribbon that threatened to get tangled in your cassette player? Those were the days to be a music aficionado. People would craft beautiful mixtapes oriented around a particular theme, like “summer memories” or “the road trip.” There was heart and soul in the mixtape.

Unfortunately, there wasn’t a skip feature. Oh, you could “fast”-forward through a particular track that you didn’t like. But you had to adjust your definition of “fast” and make sure you didn’t go too far and miss the track you did want to listen to. Although some of the charm of music died with the mixtape, at least with CDs and MP3s you can skip songs.

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Three Thoughts about Adult Leadership

I love working with adult leaders. In our ministry, they are the backbone of our process of discipleship. We have people serving in all capacities, from those who keep up with registrations for the latest mission trip, to those who clean up pizzas at the end of a meeting, to those who will teach middle school girls how to walk faithfully with God.

One of the greatest exhilarations is to see a leader succeeding in his or her service. It energizes me to hear stories of adult leaders having a positive impact on our youth, because I know that I’m not the bottleneck and others are joining in this service to God. So I want to do my best to serve them well, equip them, and help them grow in leadership. Here are three ways I try to do that.
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A Short Book Review: Create by Stephen Altrogge

In college, I often stayed up into the late hours with a strange nocturnal desire to create. In the twilight hours, ideas seemed to come to me for songs to write, languages to learn, things to create.

Usually, I would strum the guitar aimlessly until my creative momentum gave way to sleepiness.

In Stephen Altrogge’s short e-book, Create: Stop Making Excuses and Start Making Stuff, he addresses that little urge to create and encourages us not to give up on it, but rather to cultivate our creativity to the glory of God.

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